http://vitalcoaching.com/breakupforwomen.htm In 95% of the cases, getting back together does not work - Most of the times, the reasons that did lead to your break up are still there - Identify the key issues that did lead to your break up - are you and your ex totally committed to make this work? - If you are the one who broke up, apologize and tell him why it won't happen again - No one wants to be dumped twice by the same person - It takes 1 to 3 months of dedicated focus to overcome your key relationship challenges, are you ready to go for it?